So i was told i could push and that they could see the head. On one hand it was a relief knowing it was almost over , on the other i rememvered how hard it was last time they told me to push. For 2 hours i was trying to push but never felt any urge to so i didnt really know what i was doing. It wasnt productive. In the end they gave me oxygen and vacumed the baby out.
But this time i did feel like pushing. It was really hard and painful but a lot shorter. Suddenly we had the baby lying in me and soeun cut the cord. That was around 3:20. By 8pm i was settled in the ward for the two night stay.